When Sarah’s wedding plans took an unexpected turn, my husband Jim and I were shocked by her entitlement. We had always given her love and support, including handmade quilts, heirloom jewelry, and financial help. But recently, Sarah sent us a $5,000 check with a hurtful note demanding we fund her birthday vacation, criticizing us for “cheap trash gifts.”

Hurt and disappointed, we decided to gather everything we had ever given her: quilts, family jewelry, and cherished mementos. We withdrew our financial support for her wedding and wrote Sarah a letter emphasizing the importance of respect and gratitude.

The fallout was swift—Sarah called us furious, accusing us of ruining her life. Family reactions were mixed, but some supported us, understanding tough lessons are sometimes necessary for personal growth. While it hurt, Jim and I stand by our decision. Love isn’t about giving in to every demand; it’s about guiding loved ones to be better people.

We hope one day Sarah will reflect on this and learn to appreciate the love we’ve always given her.